Sundays too my father got up early
and put his clothes on in the blueblack cold,
then with cracked hands that ached
from labor in the weekday weather made
banked fires blaze. No one ever thanked him.

I’d wake and hear the cold splintering, breaking.
When the rooms were warm, he’d call,
and slowly I would rise and dress,
fearing the chronic angers of that house,

Speaking indifferently to him,
who had driven out the cold
and polished my good shoes as well.
What did I know, what did I know
of love’s austere and lonely offices?

Robert Hayden, 1913-1980 – “Those Winter Sundays” from Collected Poems



Discover more from Tim Miller

Subscribe to get the latest posts to your email.

6 responses

  1. Dear Tim, I somehow can’t post my comments. Thank you for this poem. Only today a friend and I discussed  how we wished we had the wisdom we have today during our youth. My father worked hard at the sugar plantation and his enjoyment was a glass of Japanese wine. How I wished I had taken him to a bar and have him experience a bar where we could have both talked. But I didn’t do that. This must be part of the natural process of being young. Thank you.

    frances kakugawa http://www.francesk.org

    Liked by 2 people

  2. thanks Frances. this poem brings vivid memories of my own father as well. your comment should be posted! thank you for always stopping by

    Like

  3. Jennifer Mugrage Avatar

    I love this poem.

    Liked by 1 person

  4. thank you for stopping by to read it!

    Like

  5. I enjoy your poetry and will try to see how I can post my comments. 🙏

    Sent from my iPhone

    Liked by 1 person

  6. Frances, check it out now, you shd be able to reply directly under each poem. sorry about that!

    Like

Leave a Reply

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

#228 – What Ted Bundy did on July 14, 1974 Human Voices Wake Us

An episode from 5/4/26: Tonight, I read the story of the French journalist Jean-Paul Kauffmann and his capture and three year captivity at the hands of Hezbollah. While held prisoner, he was given many books to read to pass the time, and what I share comes from the spy novelist John le Carré’s memoir, The Pigeon Tunnel: Stories from My Life.Next, I read from Caroline Fraser’s Murderland: Crime and Bloodlust in the Time of Serial Killers. As I say, ever since listening to the audiobook I’ve come to think that there are true crime books, and then there is Fraser’s book: for those who can stomach this kind of material, it is essential. I read the pages describing Ted Bundy’s kidnapping, sexual assault, and murder of Janice Ott and Denise Naslund on the same day—July 14, 1974—from Lake Sammamish State Park in Washington.The best way to support the podcast is by leaving a review on Apple or Spotify, sharing it with others, or sending me a note on what you think. You can also order any of my books: Time and the River: From Columbine to the Invention of Fire, Notes from the Grid, To the House of the Sun, The Lonely Young & the Lonely Old, and Bone Antler Stone. I've also edited a handful of books in the S4N Pocket Poems series. I also have a YouTube channel where I share poems and excerpts from these books, mostly as YouTube shorts.Email me at humanvoiceswakeus1@gmail.com. 
  1. #228 – What Ted Bundy did on July 14, 1974
  2. #227 – The Great Fire of London and the destruction of Jerusalem
  3. #226: The Vitality and terror of cities
  4. #225 – The invention of the wheel, and the power of storytelling
  5. #224: Let's talk about William Blake
  6. #223 – How to write two novels at the same time, with Charles Dickens
  7. #222: Seamus Heaney – 10 Essential Poems
  8. #221: Volcanoes, Plagues & the Childhood of a Kabbalist
  9. #220: The working poor and a so-so murder show
  10. #219: When a paragraph changes your life

Discover more from Tim Miller

Subscribe now to keep reading and get access to the full archive.

Continue reading