Sundays too my father got up early
and put his clothes on in the blueblack cold,
then with cracked hands that ached
from labor in the weekday weather made
banked fires blaze. No one ever thanked him.

I’d wake and hear the cold splintering, breaking.
When the rooms were warm, he’d call,
and slowly I would rise and dress,
fearing the chronic angers of that house,

Speaking indifferently to him,
who had driven out the cold
and polished my good shoes as well.
What did I know, what did I know
of love’s austere and lonely offices?

Robert Hayden, 1913-1980 – “Those Winter Sundays” from Collected Poems



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  1. Dear Tim, I somehow can’t post my comments. Thank you for this poem. Only today a friend and I discussed  how we wished we had the wisdom we have today during our youth. My father worked hard at the sugar plantation and his enjoyment was a glass of Japanese wine. How I wished I had taken him to a bar and have him experience a bar where we could have both talked. But I didn’t do that. This must be part of the natural process of being young. Thank you.

    frances kakugawa http://www.francesk.org

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  2. thanks Frances. this poem brings vivid memories of my own father as well. your comment should be posted! thank you for always stopping by

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    I love this poem.

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  4. thank you for stopping by to read it!

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  5. I enjoy your poetry and will try to see how I can post my comments. 🙏

    Sent from my iPhone

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  6. Frances, check it out now, you shd be able to reply directly under each poem. sorry about that!

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An episode from 1/2/23: Tonight, I read a handful of voices from those living in Europe and the United States between 1900 and 1914. Rephrased only slightly, nearly all of their concerns (over technology, gender, nationalism, war, eugenics) feel like they could appear in the news or on the street today. Then and now, what is actually going on alongside all the dread? What can we learn from these voices that sound so much like our own, and what will people look back on 2023 learn for themselves?Each of these quotations can be found in Philipp Blom’s wonderful book, The Vertigo Years.The best way to support the podcast is by leaving a review on Apple or Spotify, sharing it with others, or sending me a note on what you think. You can also order any of my books: Time and the River: From Columbine to the Invention of Fire, due out next year, is now available for preorder. Other books include Notes from the Grid, To the House of the Sun, The Lonely Young & the Lonely Old, and Bone Antler Stone. I've also edited a handful of books in the S4N Pocket Poems series. I also have a YouTube channel where I share poems and excerpts from these books, mostly as YouTube shorts.Email me at humanvoiceswakeus1@gmail.com.
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